In our lives, there are many male friends who meet a girl they like but don't know how to chat and flirt with them. They are afraid that it might be awkward since they don't know what to talk about. So how do you chat and flirt with a girl you like? Let's study together!
Don't be too presumptuous
For chatting and flirting with the girls you secretly have a crush on, boys must be particularly excited and enthusiastic about it, but you should pay attention to the content of the conversation to avoid arousing negative feelings.
Be proactive
Since you are the one that has a crush on her, of course, we have to be more active, otherwise there will be no chance for you at all. Don't be afraid of being shy. Don't be afraid of embarrassment. If you ever plan to build a connection with her or possibly get a date or even a one night stand, you need to be brave and more active.
The conversation shouldn't be too frequent
Active contact is necessary, but also pay attention to the number of times. It's never a good choice nor the right way to win her heart by sending messages none-stop or making a phone call per hour. Choose the time when you and her are both available, so you can both concentrate on the conversation without interruption.
Understand her emotional state through her friends
If necessary, it is best to get her good friends' contact information to get to know her better, and also it's a smart choice to ask her friends help if you want to win her over.
Tell her about the couples around you
You can consciously or unconsciously mention the interesting stories of your friends who are in love. On the one hand, you can reveal what you want to be in love, and on the other hand, you can enliven the chat atmosphere.
Invite her to attend more friends gatherings organized by you
You can dating her more often, and bring her to your friends. Your friends can be your best allies and wingmen if you know what I mean. They can boost the subtle atmosphere between you.
Slowly deepen the connection between you
It takes a certain amount of time and process to go from a crush to a formal boyfriend and girlfriend. Do it step by step. Have some more patience, and don't give up halfway too early.
Timely confession
It feels that you are almost there. After several weeks or so, you can talk about it. Don't keep on procrastinating. If the other party doesn't know what you mean, they may start with others, so don't be too anxious or procrastinate.
